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4.1 Hygiene
There are many good shower soaps that leave you smelling good. One I recommend is Clean On Me.
Get a lotion or oil that smells good and tastes good, or has no taste, but make sure you smell good and taste clean. Products I recommend are Hempz Original Herbal Moisturizer, Hempz Sweet Pineapple & Honey Melon Lotion, Proclaim Professional Care Natural 7 Oil, and Making Love Massage Oil, Strawberries and Champagne. You want her to yearn for you to lick her, and for her to lick you. Then you two can enjoy a Gem 69.
4.2 Clean Up for Anal Play
To indulge in gem sex, cleaning the gem inside is the best strategy. A system to clean the gem is to use an anal douche bulb filled with warm water to flush out the gem.
Once you and your partner are into having anal sex regularly, there are stronger and quicker options for cleansing, like the traditional red enema bag and shower attachments that will do a stronger cleaning. With shower attachments, be sure to watch the water temperature.
Take a shower, use a soap that does not irritate you or a genital cleanser like Balneol, Organyc Intimate Wash, or Summer’s Eve, and rinse the area and your gem well using your finger, done. Use a nice smelling soap like Clean On Me as a final step.
4.3 Other Hygiene and Health Considerations
HealthLine Magazine provides 9 ways to reduce the risk of a UTI. Commit to being diligent about good health practices.
4.4 Toys for Explosive Anal Orgasms

The Petite Sensations Teazer 7 Speed Anal Vibrator

The Eden Vibrating Bendable Anal Beads




Doc Johnson Sliders Multi-Speed Rippled Anal Beads- Style Vibrator

Triple Explosion Vibrating Beads

Vibrating Anal Beads Butt Plug


G Spot Vibrator for Vagina Stimulation by LuxeLuv

Couples Vibrator with Dual Motors 10 Powerful Vibration Modes for G Spot Clitoral Stimulation

Remote Control Wearable G-spot Clit Vibrator, 9-Speed Clitoral Dildo Vibrator


Urnight Vibrating Penis Ring, Sex Toys for Men, and Couples clit Stimulator

Adorime Cock/Penis Ring Vibrator with 9 Powerful Vibrations


Cordless Personal Wand Electric Massager

4.5 Lubricants




Wet Flavored Intimacy Gel – Juicy Watermelon—sugar free


New no glycerin or no sugar lubricants:
Aloe Cadabra lube Mango passion and Piña Colada
Lube Life Original, Anal Lubricant, Watermelon, and Strawberry
Lynk Pleasure – Anal Lube.
Thick water-based lubricants:
Astroglide – Gel I don’t like thicker lubes for anal sex; the consistency does not provide a good slippery feel. Thicker than Please Liquid.
Slippery Stuff – Gel glycerin free and about the same consistency as Astroglide Gel, but it can be stringy.
Medium consistency water-based lubricants:
Astroglide – Natural Feel, glycerin- and paraben-free—nice consistency but I do not like the taste. You can taste for yourself at a Good Vibrations or by sample pack from a local sex store.
Sliquid – Organics Natural glycerin and paraben free. A decent lubricant, but I still prefer the consistency of Astroglide regular.
Thin water-based lubricants:
Sliquid H2O – Thin consistency and tastes okay.
Pink Water – Even thinner consistency, I did not like the taste.
Here is a lube container that looks smooth and is easy to hold with one hand and dispenses lube well.

Balneol Hygienic Cleansing Lotion
